DO YOU WATCH HOME VIDEOS?

If you’ll agree with me, there is always one or two things to learn from the things we feed our eyes on. We might not realize immediately until we experience real life issues that are similar.

There is a particular scene i want to draw our attention to. It come up in almost every Ibo, no juju home video. It is about heartbreaks. It happens like this….

A man is dating a girl but finds he is attracted to to this other woman who he becomes friends with. They become so close, they start seeing a lot of each other. What started as friendship turns to a longing to be with each other and hear from each other. They talk about everything except the ‘other girl’.

All of a sudden, one day, the girl picks up her bag to go visit after waiting to hear from her man for sometime and no sign, mtn suddenly starts misbehaving and even his glo line is switched off. Only to get to his front door and be greeted by a young lady in her robe. chanting about how he proposed and how they got married only last weekend. Lost for words, the girl goes back home and cries and cry and cries.

You might be wondering why the story? Well, I found out recently this things happen in real life. We ladies should learn how to handle such situations. Never take anything for granted.When a man starts getting really close and keeps telling you how much he likes you and your principle, how much he wants to be with you and hear your voice, without categorically asking you out, BE WARE

It takes a lot of courage to act when all you want to do is love. But it makes it easier for a lady to handle, if she can put her acts together and ask the man what exactly he wants. Learn to define a relationship that is engaging your mind so badly. Call him and ask him if its friendship he wants or more. If more ask specifically what he wants. These questions don’t kill, they will definitely help clarify issues.

It won’t then come as a surprise when he says he is getting married and calls you to help him pick ”aso ebi” And if he says he wants you to be his wife (girl), then, you have a decision to make. Until then, Assumptions, taking things for granted and negligence will definitely result to heartbreaks. BE WARNED

Life is Good

Sheep in wolfs clothing

Hmmm… It’s no mistake ‘’sheep in wolfs clothing.’’ I know we all have had about wolf in sheep clothing and all that is attributed to it. The back stabbers, the ones Yoruba say ‘’spit out white saliva and keeps black blood inside,’’ the ones bible says worms up to your home and make friends with everyone while frustrating the efforts of the week women. Those that will smile with you, notice your weakness, refuse to point it out to correct you but find pleasure in bad mouthing you. Such are wolfs.

The sheep in wolf clothing are not in the list better. They will maintain a façade of religion but their conduct will deny its validity. The bible says they have a form of godliness but deny its power. They have heard, they have seen, they have given half their lives but do not want to be left out of the world. They want to be among. They know the truth but have not surrendered to the truth so; it has not set them free. These people are poisons; if you drink them you shorten your life. If you work with them, life is never boring, but you kill your spirit man. These are the people I will warn you to STAY CLEAR OF. BEWARE.

To all sheep out there that think life with God is boring, therefore, mixing with the world to add pleasure, I pity you. What has darkness got to do with light? Absolutely nothing, you can not mock God.

Are these lines familiar? ‘’I only take a little drink, but its 1 stick I smoked, it’s just her/him am with, it’s simply a party now. Its music, the rhythm is nice. They are my friends I can’t desert them.’’ Then you know them or you are one of them.

My advice, stop depriving yourself of a wonderful life in God. ‘’For I know the plans I have for you,’’ declares the Lord ‘’plans to prosper you and not to harm you…..’’ Make a wise decision and let down the guard. Be Bold.

Life is Good

Planning- a step in the right direction

Ive wanted to own a blog for quite some time, but each time i make a decision to start, i postpone. Funny how easy it is to open one but the dedication and discipline it takes to to keep it running is quite a challenging one. I finally made up my mind to start when i remembered my New Year Resolution.

Hmmm, how so old this phrase is but how so significant it has come to be in our everyday life. The goals we set our minds to achieve at the beginning of the year, month, day are guidelines to help attain fulfillment daily.

No wonder companies whether private or public set targets for their employees and adhere strictly to such targets. Whoever wants to achieve an organizational target is wise if he goes the extra mile by setting a more challenging target for himself and strive to meet such targets. As the saying goes, it is better to aim at the sun, if you miss, you might hit the moon.

People go to work everyday with no plans and get back tired, worn out frustrated and spent with little or no use for self. Life can be at its fullest if we make the right choices at the right times. If we plan ahead of time and go out of our comfort zones to make it happen.

We are not getting younger, we shouldn’t be caught fooling around saying our schedule is way too tight. Or am way too busy as it is. Nonsense, rather than sit back and go through the same thing every day, spice up your life a little and get another degree. Register for a professional exam, get yet another training. Remember time waits for no man and opportunities will not delay till you are ready, You have to be readily prepared and seize them whenever they show up.

The truth is you will not be less busy it will only get busier as time passes. It is amazing how much more we can achieve if only we can stretch ourselves a little more.

Life will be more fun if we can sit back and have a calculated plan. If you have not imbibed the culture already its time you take it up. Brainstorm, think of what you want to achieve within the year, as such, what you need to do to make it happen everyday, month will be the next target. WRITE IT DOWN. Its good to always have a reference.

Just thinking aloud, cant we also have a backup plan?

Plan your Life-career, finances, personal, social life. Who knows, you might just hit the Bullseye.

Life is Good

Hello world!

Welcome to WordPress.com. This is your first post. Edit or delete it and start blogging!